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    On Saturday last the Court was occupied
  from 11 o’clock in the forenoon until 7 in the evening, with the case of Sheldon
  Hawley v. George Ham, which cause excited very intense interest.  The Court was crowded to excess.  We shall here endeavour to present our
  readers with an outline of the facts and a brief statement of the trial.    On the 23d of
  April, 1823, the defendant, George Ham, married Esther Hawley, the
  plaintiff’s daughter, and from the defendant’s attachment to her previous to
  the marriage, every hope was entertained that they would live happily
  together.  It was, however, attempted
  to be proved on the part of the prosecution, that within little more than
  four months from the date of the marriage, the defendant had, in a variety of
  ways, so ill treated his wife, by personal chastisement and other-wise, as to
  render her life almost insupportable - and shortly after the birth of the
  first and only child of Mrs. Ham, her father, under the impression that the
  life of his daughter was in danger from the alleged brutality of the
  defendant, took her home with him - where she has since resided, being a
  period of upwards of twelve years.    In the months of September and October
  last, attempts had been made to obviate the differences between the parties -
  and accordingly, Mrs. Ham had paid several visits to her husband - and, as
  will appear by the evidence expressed her willingness to live with him - but
  the terms on which the defendant proposed to receive her were (as alleged on
  the part of the prosecution) too gross and revolting to be accepted.    The action was brought in the form of an assumpsit, for maintenance, embracing two counts - which
  were.    1st.  For meat, drink, washing, lodging and other
  necessaries, found and provided by said plaintiff at the special instance and
  request of said defendant, for Esther Ham, wife of said defendant.    2d.  For meat, drink &c. found and provided
  for divers persons at the special instance, &C.  To the damage of said Sheldon Hawley
  of  £1000.    C. A. Hagerman, M.S. Bidwell, and Geo.
  Macaulay, Esquires, Counsel for the Plaintiff.    Henry H. Boulton,
  Esq. Solicitor General, John Cartwright and Henry Cassady,
  Esqrs. Counsel for defendant.    The following Jury having been sworn, viz.           Samuel M'Rea,
  Patrick Black, John Hynes, Edward M'Fatridge,
  Chester Hatch, Thomas Whitely, William Ashley, James Rorison,
  Joseph Wood, John Duncan, James Hussey, William Lyal.    Mr. Bidwell opened the case for the
  prosecution in a very eloquent speech - related at some length the
  circumstances that gave rise to the action - and went fully into the law
  respecting the degree of ill treatment which might warrant the wife to
  separate herself from her husband - and the legal obligation on the part of
  that husband to maintain and support his wife.  In alluding to the ill usage sustained by
  the plaintiff’s daughter in the present instance, the learned Counsel pointed
  out the difficulties that must necessarily exist in proving the different charges
  of ill treatment - the principal circumstances having occurred among the
  defendant’s relatives - and besides, he with much feeling observed, that no
  man could show the front - no man, however base, and however callous he might
  be, would lift his coward arm, in the presence of others against a helpless
  woman - such deeds were done in the dark - but that he could prove where the
  defendant had acknowledged to have beat his wife - could also prove the marks
  upon her person - and that it was not to be supposed that any woman would
  leave her husband and her child without some extraordinary cause.  The learned Counsel concluded an able
  address by expressing a hope that the verdict of the Jury would be  such as would prove a salutary warning to
  all husbands not ill treat their wives. Evidence for the
  Prosecution   Isabel Hawley is sister to Mrs. Ham, and
  daughter to the plaintiff - was present at the marriage of her sister with
  defendant.  Mrs. Ham, about three
  months after her confinement, was on a visit at her father’s, was very ill
  with a sore breast.  Recollects
  defendant coming for her to take her home; 
  he said, my lady, you must make ready and go home with me, and ride
  behind me, shaking, at the same time, a whip over her head.  Her father said, go and get a wagon and she
  will go with you.  Defendant again
  said, and flourishing his whip over her, my lady you must get up and come
  with me, and if you live to have another child by me, I shall discharge the
  nurse on the third day, and make you do all the work of the house - and if
  you do not get out of bed I will flog you out.  This occurred about a year after the
  marriage.  Defendant went for a wagon,
  and his wife returned home with him. - 
  About three years ago, witness met defendant accidentally, and spoke
  to him of the separation, expressing a hope that they might yet live happily
  together.  Defendant said he would
  never take his wife back - no, not even if she went on her knees to
  him.    On the 24th of September last,
  Mrs. Ham, accompanied by witness, went to defendant’s house, in Bath - she
  then offered to live with him.  He
  seemed surprised to see her, said he was not a better man than when she left
  him;  and says he, if you come to live
  with me you must look wild.  If
  all be true, I have several children in the country, and I have a sweetheart
  in Montreal, much prettier than you are. 
  His wife then said, “George, that is nothing to the purpose,  I want to know whether you will live with
  me or not?” Defendant said, “I am independent , king, lord of all!  You must humble yourself very much before I
  tell you whether I shall live with you or not.  I have the whip in my own hand, and I shall
  use it as I shall think proper.  I will
  not tell you whether I will live with you or not, until you go and make
  friends with my mother.”  On the 26th,
  being two days thereafter, Mrs. Ham, accompanied by witness, went to
  defendant’s father’s, and there made the most ample apology to her husband’s
  mother.  Defendant came in at the time,
  and his wife told him that she had made friends with his mother, and asked
  him whether they could not then make 
  up all differences, and live together. 
  Defendant observed “how do you know that they (alluding to his
  parents) wish us to live together?” - His wife said, addressing her
  father-in-law, “father Ham, have you any objection that we should live
  together?” - No, says old Mr. Ham, you know that I always wished you to live
  together.  Defendant then said to his
  wife, If you live with me, you must do all the work of my house - and you
  must do it in style - and if you show a cross look, or a frown, you shall
  walk.  I shall dismiss all my servants,
  except a man to wait on myself, for I am worthy.  Mrs. Ham said, can’t we make it up now, and
  I’ll go home with you - no, says he, I have business of greater importance to
  attend to today.  She says, I think
  this is a business of great importance. 
  - You may think so, says he, but I don’t.  Defendant said I have nothing more to say
  on the subject.  His wife then
  observed, “George, I shall go to your house this evening” - which she did,
  when he told her to go home, and give him a month to consider of the
  matter.  On this occasion, the
  defendant wrote a letter to the plaintiff, which was read in the Court.    On the 24th of October last,
  being the day appointed by defendant for taking her back, his wife,
  accompanied by witness, went to his house, when he (the defendant) informed
  her of the terms on which he proposed that she should live with him - they
  are as follows:  “You shall be confined
  in a room, and I shall neither eat, drink, nor lodge with you, and you shall
  receive no visitors, nor meddle with any thing
  belonging to me - for the instant you do, I shall show you the door and you
  walk” - and admitting, continued he, that I should lodge with you, have you
  any intention that another man shall sleep in the same room?  His wife said, “this is not receiving me as
  a wife nor treating me as such.” 
  Defendant further said “you must not be disappointed if 5 or 6 other
  women may occasionally come into the house.” 
  Mrs. Ham said she could not remain on these conditions, and went
  away.  Witness believes that Mr. Ham is
  in good circumstances.  Mrs. Ham was
  boarded, lodged, and clothed respectably by the plaintiff - Plaintiff kept
  the child about nine months.    Cross-examined by the Solicitor - Peter Perry and his mother
  were present when defendant took away his wife in a wagon - Mrs. Ham came on
  foot from defendant’s sister’s - she was not so ill when she came as when she
  went away.  On remonstrance, he went
  for a wagon, and took her home - he flourished the whip over her head  - appeared to be in a passion.  He came [---] a violent passion, flourished
  the whip over his wife and said - “come home with me my lady.”  Witness did not know the cause of his
  passion.  Perry was in the same room
  and could see what passed.  Mrs. Ham
  while in her father’s house, was well-behaved and industrious - she washed,
  sewed, knitted and did the house work - did the same kind of work that witness
  did - did nothing while unwell - was invited by her mother to come home until
  she got better.  Did not know what
  reason defendant had for saying that he would not live with her, if she went
  on her knees to him.  Does not think
  that defendant had any reason to be jealous of her.  Did not recollect of a chairmaker
  living at her father’s house.  Saw Dr.
  Baker at her father’s house - never saw any familiarities between Dr. Baker
  and Mrs. Ham. Witness had no knowledge of her sister being fond of the chairmaker, nor of her wishing to go off with him.
  Defendant, at the time of his marriage, was a shoemaker - sometimes wrought
  at his trade, and sometimes worked on his father’s farm.  All the Hams lived together and kept no servants.  Understands that defendant made objections
  to the child living with to the plaintiff. 
  Plaintiff and his family are of the Church of England.  Witness is not aware that any improper
  language was taught to the child.  Is
  not aware that defendant belongs to any religious community - is not aware
  that her sister was to join the Methodists. 
  Witness’ father lives in Earnestown.  - Mr. Ham lived in the same concession,
  about three miles distant -  is now
  living at Bath.  Recollects her father
  bringing home Mrs. Ham.  Witness is 23
  years of age - was quite young at the time - recollects the circumstance and
  that is all. Recollects that when she (witness) went home with Mrs. Ham in
  October last, defendant proposed that his wife should be confibed
  to a room, and not that she should have the use of one.  Did not hear defendant intimate as his
  motives for having another person sleeping in the same room - that he heard
  that Mrs. Ham had formerly expressed a dread that he should murder her, and
  that he, by that means, wished to prevent it.    By Mr. Hagerman - Mrs. Ham always conducted
  herself with propriety when at her father’s. 
  Recollects her refusing to go to several parties.    By the Solicitor - Never knew Mrs. Ham, either
  with or without witness, sitting up sparking at night with one William
  Fairfield and Samuel Clark.    John Simpson - Recollects in 1814 or 15,
  having had a conversation with the defendant, coming from the Conscon Lake to the Carrying Place, asked him why he
  separated from his wife.  Defendant
  said, that in consequence of some dispute between them he chastised her with
  a riding whip and she left him. 
  Defendant observed, that he never intended to live with her again.    Cross-examined by the Solicitor -This conversation took place
  as above - witness lived at the Carrying Place at that time. Defendant also
  lived at the Carrying Place at that time - he kept shop for Ebenezer Perry. Colin
  Mackenzie Esq., is near
  neighbour to the parties and knows them well - knows that Mrs. Ham has
  been     [---]  ably maintained by the plaintiff.  The defendant was a young man, doing well,
  and had a farm of his own at the time of the separation.    Here the evidence of the prosecution
  closed and the Solicitor General, for the defence, craved a non-suit in
  favour of his client on the following grounds: 1st, That there was
  no evidence to support the action, it appearing that the plaintiff was the
  wrong doer in the first instance and 2dly, That
  nothing had appeared to warrant the separation.    The learned gentleman read several
  decisions applicable to the present case, and contended that there was no
  proof of violence adduced;  at least,
  of such violence as at all to warrant Mrs. Ham to leave her husband - While
  he admitted that one witness had sworn that the defendant had acknowledged to
  him, having chastised his wife with a riding whip, yet he insisted that that
  was not enough to authorise the plaintiff to take away his daughter; Fear and
  terror of life, he said, must be proved, but he contended that no such terror
  existed in the present case.    His Lordship stated the law of the case -
  and said, that to maintain an action of this kind it was necessary to prove
  that the defendant’s conduct had been such as to render her departure necessary,
  that the question now was, how far this had been the case.  it was true, it appeared in evidence, that
  a chastisement had taken place;  but,
  however, ungallant such conduct might be considered, yet a man had a right to
  chastise his wife moderately - and to warrant her leaving her husband,
  the chastisement must be such as to put her life in jeopardy.  And were it not for the defendant’s letter
  to the plaintiff, in which certainly consent was implied, he would have no
  hesitation in granting him a non-suit. - His Lordship wished the public
  distinctly to understand what the law was in such cases as the present - that
  it was decidedly hostile to the practice of wives running away from their
  husbands.  - His Lordship could not
  help expressing his disapprobation, in the strongest terms, of the officious
  meddling of the parents of Mrs. Ham, in the present instance;  and in exemplification of what the conduct
  of a parent ought to be in such cases, His Lordship, with great good humour,
  related the following Story    It once upon a time, so happened, that a
  person who had some dispute with his wife, gave her a moderate chastisement -
  upon which the fair one ran home, and complained to her father.  The father pretending to be in a desperate
  rage at the husband said, - what! has the scoundrel really had the impudence
  to beat my daughter - well, says he, I shall be revenged upon him, for I am
  determined to beat his wife, which he did, and sent her home, and was no more
  troubled with the quarrels of the parties - and Mr. Hawley should have done
  the same.    The Solicitor General now entered upon the
  defence.  He stated to the Jury that
  the case was not of such consequence as they might have been led to suppose
  from the opening speech. He with much eloquence and ability took a
  comprehensive view of the case. He contrasted the serious and even awful
  charges brought forward in the opening address with the evidence which had
  just been adduced for the prosecution. 
  He observed, that if his client were such a beast - such an absolute
  brute as they represented him, he (the Solicitor) would not stand there to
  defend him. The reverse, however, he was happy to say, was the case, and he
  could now tell the Jury that Mr. Ham was a respectable man - that from a poor
  shoemaker and labourer as they would make him, he by his own merit and good
  conduct raised himself to wealth and respectability. Were he such a monster
  as they would make him to be - yes, if he kept five or six women in Bath - if
  he really kept a Seraglio like the Grand Turk, as they alleged, how was it
  that he is now associated with and respected by his neighbours.  He contended that his client, Mr. Ham, was
  at that moment fully as respectable as Mr. Hawley or any of his connections -
  and he would say further, if his client were such an abandoned monster as
  they represented him, why has he been so long on the list of
  magistrates.  Was there an instance, he
  would ask, of a brother magistrate complaining of him - no, gentlemen, he has
  always conducted himself with decency and propriety.  and how, gentlemen, I would again ask, has
  it come about that in the very face of the slanders and the calumnies of his
  enemies, this very Mr. Ham has been on one occasion elected by his neighbours
  to represent them in Parliament.    The learned gentleman in going into the
  merits of the case, stated that he could prove to the satisfaction of the
  Court and Jury,  that the conduct of
  the plaintiff, Mr. Hawley, was most improper. 
  He could prove that when he (Mr. Hawley) came for his daughter, he
  said to the defendant, “You d---d rascal, you have ill-used my daughter - I
  was able to support her before she married you, and I am so yet.”  This was a sample of the conduct of this
  mild, immaculate Clerk of the Church. 
  The learned gentleman put the Jury on their guard against the
  eloquence and ingenuity of the opposite Counsel.  Complimented Mr. Bidwell’s address - it had
  one material fault however - it was not true.  Towards the close of a very lengthy and
  very eloquent speech, the learned gentleman disputed the validity of the
  marriage between the parties.  The
  evidence on this point will appear below. For the Defence    Jemimah Perry was present when Mr. Ham took
  away his wife from plaintiff’s house; did not see Mr. Ham flourish a whip or
  say any thing angry;  he had a very small whip in his hand, but
  did not shake it over his wife;  Mrs.
  Ham made no objection to go home.  Mr.
  Hawley proposed to Mr. Ham to get a wagon, which was done, and they went home
  quietly. Witness saw old Mrs. Hawley shaking her fist under Mr. Ham’s nose -
  old Mrs. Hawley was in a fret - supposes it was because her daughter was
  going home - recollected Mrs. Hawley saying that she wished her daughter was
  in her tomb before she married the defendant.    Peter Perry went to the house of Mr.
  Hawley with Mr. Ham. Defendant asked his wife to go home with him.  Mr. Hawley wished him to go for a wagon -
  saw nothing improper on the part of Mr. Ham. 
  When defendant first went into the house, and after the usual
  salutations, defendant asked the plaintiff if he owed him anything on account
  of his wife, and was answered in the negative - asked Mrs. Hawley the same
  question, and was also answered in the negative. Did not see Ham shake a whip
  over his wife - if he had done so must have seen it.    Mary Perry was present when Mr. Hawley
  took away his daughter from defendant, he told his daughter she must go with
  him, as he would not allow her to live any longer with her husband;  she did not wish to go, but her father insisted.
  He ordered her to take down the curtains from her bed;  Mrs. Ham sat down on a chair and
  cried;  but old Mrs. Hawley took away
  the curtains;  thought the conduct of
  the plaintiff and his wife very outrageous. 
  Witness is sister to the defendant; 
  lived in the same house with defendant and his wife while they were
  together, and never saw defendant strike her. 
  Mrs. Ham told witness about six years ago, that her husband never
  struck her; thinks that if Mr. Hawley and his wife had kept away, there would
  have been nothing wrong, and they would never have been separated.    John Ham thinks that the difficulty had originated
  between George Ham and his mother-in-law; 
  thought so from certain reports that she had been circulating;  for instance, she insinuated at one time,
  that witness had treated his wife harshly.    Henry Ham was present in October last
  when Mrs. Ham came home.  Defendant
  said so you are come back to live with me. 
  You think that I am a better man now than I was before, but you are mistaken.  Defendant said he would let her have the
  best room in the house, and if that was not good enough, he would build
  another;  he would not cohabit with
  her;  she might go out and in as she
  liked;  but he would be the proper
  judge of what visitors should come to his house.    John Ham is father to the defendant;  his son George Ham, is about 33 years of
  age, was christened by the Rev. Mr. Langhorn; 
  was married in 1813 by the Rev. Rob. Mcdowal.  He & his wife lived happily together
  for the 1st year;  next year
  Hawley took away his daughter.  Job Aylesworth and Elisha Shorey
  saw Hawley the day he took away his daughter; 
  met them on the road talking to one of the neighbours;   heard Hawley say I have taken away my
  daughter;  I supported her before, and
  can do it again;   she shall not live
  with him again.    Rev. Robert Mcdowall identified the certificate of
  marriage between George Ham and Esther Hawley; witness is a Presbyterian of
  the reformed Dutch Church. By the solicitor. 
  Were you ordained by a Bishop. Witness. We are all Bishops. His
  Lordship observed, that if witness had been ordained by a Bishop, he could
  not be a Presbyterian. Defendant’s parents were communicants in his church,
  and George Ham, the defendant, was a regular attendant, but never communicated.  Point reserved for the Court above upon the
  legality of the marriage as above celebrated.    Here the defence closed.    Mr. Hagerman now rose in behalf of the
  plaintiff; and in one of those bursts of eloquence peculiar to himself,
  carried along with him, if not the conviction, at least, the feeling, of his
  hearers.  It is always with pleasure we
  listen to the speeches of this gentleman, especially in cases like the
  present, calculated to create strong excitement.  We have heard those who could, perhaps,
  reason more closely than Mr. Hagerman, but very few indeed whose eloquence,
  in our estimation, is more powerful.      At the commencement of his speech, the
  learned gentleman adverted to the high eulogium which the learned Solicitor
  had passed on the character of the defendant; 
  he, however, contended that there were many then present who knew well
  to the contrary, and even a stronger proof of the absolute baseness and
  depravity of the mind of that individual could not be adduced, than the scandalous
  and most damnable plea now set up by him. 
  What gentlemen of the Jury, says the learned counsel, does he attempt
  to prove - it is gentlemen, that the wife of his bosom is a prostitute, and
  his child a bastard.    The learned gentleman went at great length
  into the law and facts of the case. He observed that the greater part of the
  witnesses were Ham’s near relatives; but he would put Miss Hawley’s testimony
  against the whole mass of evidence brought against him. It was always with
  regret that he found himself compelled to differ in opinion with the
  bench.  In the present instance,
  notwithstanding what had fallen from His Lordship to the contrary, he would
  deny, that at the present day, a man was at liberty to chastise his wife -
  that was the law at former times - but the day, he was happy to say, was not
  too far advanced to admit such doctrines.    Gentlemen (he continued) what inference
  are you to draw from the modest request of the defendant to his wife, that
  she would submit to having another man sleep in the same room with her?  Is there any man who now hears me, whose
  blood does not boil within him at such a proposal - whose soul does not
  revolt at the cold-blooded brutality of this bad man?  He was to derive either of two advantages
  from this proposition - if she rejected it, (as she did, with silent, but
  expressive indignation) he then would make it appear, that it was entirely
  her own fault if she did not live with him. 
  If she submitted, what then would follow?  Gentlemen, you have perhaps heard of an
  atrocious circumstance which occurred near the Napanee Mills some time
  since.  John Clark (I suppose you all
  know him) induced an unfortunate female to consent to marry a man then living
  at his house;  the worthy John
  proceeded to join the parties in holy wedlock & the day, with its
  festivities being over, the happy couple retired to bed.  As was concerted before, between the
  bridegroom & Clark, the former, whenever his unfortunate dupe fell
  asleep, got up, & left the room for a few minutes and Clark took
  possession of the bed.  The bridegroom
  immediately returned, and affected to discover that his newly married wife
  was false to his bed, upon which, the marriage was immediately declared void.  Gentlemen, do you think that Mr. Ham, with
  the knowledge of a stratagem, so suited to his ideas of right & wrong,
  would let so good an opportunity escape him, as his wife’s submission to his
  proposal would give him, to red himself of her forever.    Towards the close of his speech, the
  learned gentleman having been frequently interrupted by the Solicitor, as to
  the indecorum of some of his expressions, begged pardon of the Court &
  Jury, if, in the heat of speaking, he had transgressed the bounds of
  decency;  he denied, however, that he
  did;  observed, that the defendant, by
  his infamous conduct, had brought it all upon himself.  But, my lord, continued he, against the
  continued interruptions of others I put myself, under the protection of the
  court.  I stand her, my lord, as a
  Barrister and a Gentleman.  In the
  former capacity, the Court will protect me, and in the latter, I shall
  protect myself.      His Lordship, after telling the Jury to
  divest their minds of the declamatory address which had just been made,
  entered into a dispassionate re-capitulation of the evidence, stated that he
  would at once have granted a non suit, but for the defendant’s letter already
  alluded to. He was of opinion, however, that that letter ought not now to
  make any difference.  He was also of
  opinion, that not a farthing of damages ought to be given, at least,
  excepting for one month, and even was not certain as to that month.    His Lordship then left the case with the
  Jury, who, after retiring for a short time, returned a verdict for the
  plaintiff - damages [---]. |